I hate saying it, but I felt kind of apathetic about the New Year. I didn’t even hear the countdown to midnight though I was in the center of it all in Chiang Mai – one moment I knew it was getting close to 12:00 and the next moment fireworks were going off – but I DIDN’T HEAR THE COUNTDOWN. Does it count if you don’t hear the countdown? It didn’t feel like it…
Here it is, already the end of January, and I still couldn’t tell you a set plan, resolution or direction for 2013. I don’t need things completely laid out, but it would be nice to have a little more clarity on what I will be spending this year doing.
I didn’t start Paper Planes to be another travel guide posting about the best spots and must-see attractions and can’t-be-missed activities. I’m not always on the move and often don’t care too much about getting off the beaten path.
There are plenty of other blogs, resources, guide books, review sites, booking sites and travelers out there that have probably already said it all and can do it much better than I. I’ve traveled a decent a bit, in a range of ways (and comfort), and have a good sense about things, but I’m not attempting to be your go-to guide for all things travel. Personally, I hate all the hyperbole and don’t have the time to to study things to the point where I can offer a ‘guide’. I usually don’t plan and research my trips extensively and therefore sometimes the posts on here may be a little haphazard as well – but real.
While I love sharing about traveling and living abroad, I also feel like this whole bloggy thing is an experiment in helping me figure out which direction(s) to go in my life and connect with others who are in similar situations. I love learning about different people, cultures and lifestyles – but I also appreciate hearing about people just like me who I can identify, empathize and learn with. It’s always reassuring to know someone else is having the same doubts, questions, problems, triumphs and experiences as you…especially when you’re trying to grow up and get your life in order (which I’m starting to realize is a never ending process).
What do I want to do? Where do I want to be? What do I want my life to be like? What do I have control over and what do I have to accept? These questions will stick with you throughout your life, but I think they’re especially prevalent in your 20s when, for the first time since kindergarten, you don’t have a set path laid out in front of you. That takes some time getting used to and figuring out.
I left home because I didn’t want to wake up 2, 5, 10 years down the line and realize I was in the exact same spot I had been in after college.
You don’t need to leave home to find yourself, but for me that’s how I wanted to try going about things. If I thought I could grow and create the wide range of experiences I’ve had while living abroad at home, I would be in the States now. But I’m here. And trying to work things out on my own terms.
I guess what I’m trying to say is that past few weeks have been spent thinking a lot about what I am doing, why I am blogging and what I want to be working toward…and I’m finally ready to refocus my intentions and get this year started.
Hopefully with a trip to the beach sometime in the near future…this is a travel blog after all.
If you’re in the same boat as me, you may want to check out these other travelers and writers who are also figuring out life one place at a time:
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Thanks for the mention! totally trying to work things out one place at a time–harder than it seems 🙂
When I first started traveling I thought living abroad and seeing different places would help me figure out what I want…now I’m starting to thinking it’s confusing me more since it opens you up to all sorts of different options and ideas!
This post is so relatable! I am also not a hardcore blogger person and started mine for the same reason as you – basically to figure out what I want to do and try out writing. I plan on keeping it up when I leave for my extended travels in June, and I also hope those experiences will help me “find myself’ and provide some direction. I found you through wanderlust and lipstick and will definitely keep reading here, because it is nice to see someone in the same situation, Keep writing!
Well this is wonderful to hear – thanks so much – and good luck with your upcoming trip!
Aww! Thanks for the mention. 🙂 I really enjoy reading your blog because of its personal and relatable style – For me it’s also about people’s personal stories and learning how other ‘wanderlusters’ make it work in their own terms. Keep doing it your way! 😉
Thanks Audrey – when are you coming to Chiang Mai?? 😉
I don’t know exactly when, but I will definitely be swinging by at some point in the year. Are you planning on sticking around a while?
Good question… 🙂
I love this post, and feel pretty much the same way right about now. Thanks =)
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